Self-Esteem and Relationships You are more likely to choose a good relationship if your self-esteem is high than when it is low because you are not willing to “settle.” Being more positive and having fun when you are with a partner or a potential partner is associated with high self-esteem. Finding and staying in a […]
Pleasing Others: The Path to Resolving Codependency
Most of the time codependency is a way of life and is the only way someone knows how to be. It can seem so important to focus on someone else instead of yourself. There is a way out. Here are some tips for working on overly pleasing others: Change the focus back to you. Identify […]
15 Traits of a Healthy Relationship
What Do Healthy Relationships Look Like? Here are 15 traits of a healthy relationship: Partners can manage conflict and differences without despair or threats. Both partners protect and nourish the relationship and make it a priority (not addicted to work for example). Both partners know how to be responsible for own needs and also for […]
How Do I Know If I Am Codependent?
Start by answering the following questions: True or False Without even realizing that it is happening, I find myself focusing on others needs even at my own expense. When it is my turn to receive help from others I usually decline, as I am uneasy when others focus their attention on me. I have many […]
Tips For Using Websites to Meet Potential Partners
Tips for Using Websites to Meet New People and Find Relationships Develop a profile which is honest but accentuates your best qualities. For example instead of just listing your profession explain what you like about it. Remember there is a sales or promotional aspect to online dating so use humor and show your friendliest side. […]