Sharing thoughts, feelings and needs is the best way to become emotionally close to someone. Asking questions casually while you spend time together is the best way to get to know someone but do not disclose a lot at a time especially in the beginning. Here are some helpful ideas: Use “I” statements: I feel […]
Handling Rejection
Most shy people are very afraid of situations where they may experience rejection by others. This is especially true of dating situations or situations involving meeting new people who may be potential friends. Common rejection avoidance strategies: Stay home every night and use the computer or watch TV Think this should be easy and give […]
15 Traits of a Healthy Relationship with a Friend or a Partner
What Do Healthy Relationships Look Like? Boundaries:Each person can say “no” to requests from the partner/friend when necessary without feeling guilty and be able to tell their partner/friend when something feels not right or hurts them. Both members of the relationship know how to be responsible for their own needs and still take care of […]
15 Traits of a Healthy Relationship
What Do Healthy Relationships Look Like? Here are 15 traits of a healthy relationship: Partners can manage conflict and differences without despair or threats. Both partners protect and nourish the relationship and make it a priority (not addicted to work for example). Both partners know how to be responsible for own needs and also for […]
Tips For Using Websites to Meet Potential Partners
Tips for Using Websites to Meet New People and Find Relationships Develop a profile which is honest but accentuates your best qualities. For example instead of just listing your profession explain what you like about it. Remember there is a sales or promotional aspect to online dating so use humor and show your friendliest side. […]